You hurt me and I lost you.

Day 8: Someone who made your life hell or treated you like shit.

I won't name and shame on here because as much as I despise this person, I'm not going to start everyone hating them, even if they don't know them. This girl treated me like dirt for 9/10 years of my life. I ended up being their target and I suppose it was because I rose to it. I took all the attention I could get when I was a child at school, especially from the 'popular' kids, which this girl was considered to be, so if they spoke to me at all I thought it was a privilege. What seemed like a normal conversation soon turned into them baiting me and basically taking the piss out of anything I said or did. Of course, I grew up eventually and began defending myself but I can never forgive them for how they made me feel. I'll always remember the day they said something to me in the corridor at secondary school and my immediate reaction (I had more confidence by this point) was to turn around yell "Fuck off," and the utter shock on their face that I'd stood up for myself was priceless - How I wish I had a camera.

Day 9: Someone you didn't want to let go but just drifted.

One of my childhood friends, Laura. She moved away at the end of year six and she was one of my close friends at the time. She moved about 2 hours away, not far to be fair, but I couldn't ask my parents to drive me there every weekend. I did go to visit once for a few days about 5 years ago-ish and had a great time but I haven't seen her face to face since. I really wish we hadn't drifted so much because recently one of her 3 brothers was killed in Afghanistan. He was a lovely guy and died far too young. If we hadn't stopped talking it would have been nice to have given my love to her personally because at least 70% of Yateley felt the loss because her family is known well to a lot of people here. Especially at those hard times it's sad to feel so apart from someone.

You gave me life.

Day 7: Someone who has made your life worth living for.

It's hard to pick just one person for this because everyone I know has given something to my life in a different way, so I'm going to have to slightly deviate from the actual wording and say that a few someones have made my life worth living for. My closest friends have obviously made my life worthwhile. I was bullied a lot when I was younger up to about Year 9 and the friends I have now gave me a new lease of life and helped me grow in confidence. Without them, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be the same as I am today - I'd probably be quite depressed and thankfully I'm not. I also feel it's worth living my life to see them have theirs. College is ending in just over 4 weeks, then there's exams and after that we'll all set off to University and hopefully off to start our careers. It's worth living to see all my friends grow up and become what they dream to be and seeing myself grow to be what I want.

I have hope and I don't want to.

Day 5: Something you hope to do in your life.

Live. I mean, really live. Of course, there's a masssive long list of stuff I'd love to do in my life or with my life but a lot are so cliche and unoriginal like 'Get married, have a family and be happy.' That would be great but why does anyone want to hear me go on for a paragraph or more about my hope for what everyone wants? So I hope to live. I want to say yes to amazing opportunities, I want to do stupid things that I may regret but learn from and I just want to be. I have an email subscription to this brilliant website which sends me notes from the Universe. I first heard about Notes From The Universe the book from Davey Wavey (he pops up all over the place) and then discovered the website. To quote the blurb of one of the books I have, "What if the Universe were to send you frequent reminders of the absolute power you have over your life?" The Author Mike Dooley, known as the interpreter of The Universe, has made a collection of messages that are uplifting and inspirational. An example:

Limits are for those who don't believe in The Universe.

That rings true to me because to the best of our knowledge, this Universe is infinite and larger than we can imagine. The mind is an constant, neverending buzz of ideas and life takes us to places we never imagined, so I ask: why should my hopes, dreams and life be any smaller than our Universe? I don't utterly rely on my hope to live, I'm just going to live.

Day 6: Something you hope you never have to do.

I saw Day 6 and immediately thought, have someone I know die too young, but I've experienced that twice in the past 3/4 years so that didn't quite work out. I thought for a while after that about what to put here, and I've ended up at "I hope I never have to take someone elses life." By that I don't mean killing them dead, I mean taking their life's dream. In Day 5 I said I want to take opportunities, but I hope to never come to a point where I want to say 'Yes,' and that yes shouldn't be leaving my lips but someone elses. I'm aware there is a battle for jobs and we have to do what we can to get where we want but I'm not sure I could bare it if I stole someone's place when they had a bigger passion for the job than me. I don't think a lot of what I'm writing here makes too much sense so the overall gist: I hope to never fill someone elses shoes if they don't fit perfectly.

I forgive me and you.

(As I missed yesterday) - Day 3: Something you have to forgive yourself for.

Lying. When I was little, up to about the age of 10, I tended to be a compulsive liar. It was never about anything big, just small little things like saying I'd seen a film I hadn't, read a book I hadn't or denying taking the last chocolate bar. Seems stupid to want to forgive myself for lying about tiny things, but as I'm the youngest in my family and I was the picture of innocence (sometimes) when I was younger, my brother and sister got bollocked for doing what I did. My brother and sister aren't my favourite people in the world at all even though we're all older now (Me: 18 in June, James: 21 in June and Ruth: 25 in July) and should be all mature and get along. Still, I do regret pinning all my crap on them because it wasn't really fair, but I was little and knew I could get away with it. I stopped doing it at around the age of 10, 11 because I was being sussed out by my Dad. It was fun while it lasted. I can occasionally get away with things nowadays (still small things like eating Ruth's not-so-secret stash of sweets) because I'll never get tired of the feeling of getting one-up on my siblings.

Day 4: Something you have to forgive someone for.

I actually couldn't think of something deadly serious for this, which almost sounds like I'm ego boosting myself saying I forgive everyone, which I don't, but I thought for literally hours and couldn't think of anything except stuff thats way too personal to put on here and mostly (and purposely) forgotten anyway. So I've decided that I need to forgive my friends for being so annoying. I adore them all, I really do but damn are they irritating sometimes.
Jess is just ridiculosly distracting, yet I love her for that because my life, and Graphics, just wouldn't be the same without her. She's also too funny. Laughing is part of my daily schedule around my friends but give my stomach muscles a break Miss Hill. There are 3 (I think) books full of quotes I have made her just to remember how funny she, and all of us, are. Jammy is stubborn as they come. Try telling her your paying for her cinema ticket, lunch or anything and she's not having it. Ever. I suppose her stubbornness translates into standing her ground which I'm proud of her for and who am I to put her in debt anyway!? Karlii is Miss Hygeine 2011 and I'm aware she can't help it (OCD and all that jazz) but it's amusing, sometimes for all the wrong reasons. She gets the hand sanitiser out for everything - even to wipe the floor of the sixth form common room. It's hard not to feel dirty around her which sets my paranoia going, but what's life without someone you love cleaning up after you? Lastly, there's Claire. What to do about Claire and her huge mouth? She is such a gossip which is very helpful when you want to know about everyone elses life because I'm nosy, but I try to tell her nothing that I know she'll shout out to the Universe and beyond. She's also a lot like me in the way if she has an opinion it's coming out of that mouth faster than light. I can't really fault her there though if I do it too.
That motley crew are loud, opinionated, hilarious and I couldn't love them more for it :)

I love me.

Day 2: Something you love about yourself.

My ability to argue back to anyone when needed. Jammy quite loves my argumentative streak as do I because living in my house, you need to be able to shout and scream your way to the top. Just over an hour ago I put it to use when my sister did her usual and started taking out her frustration on me, so up I stood and yelled back louder. A lot of times my parents tell me shouting back won't help, but I know no other way of getting my point across.
Being argumentative has tended to help as I went through secondary school too. Meeting Jess and other wonderful people in Year 10 helped me become louder and more confident and I finally learnt to say something back to the bitches in my year. So even though my mouth is big, it sure helps.

I hate me.

I've been doing the 30 Day Song Challenge on Facebook and through the wonderful world of Davey Wavey (http://www.breaktheillusion.com/) I came across the 30 Day Blog Challenge, also known as 30 Days of Truth. Basically, there's a subject for each day which the blogger must do a post about. Since my creative flow is dead and I like the sound of this, here goes.

Day 1: Something you hate about yourself.
I'm lazy. I generally have an "I don't care" and "I can't be bothered" attitude which my Dad hates much to my amusement and as much as "I don't care" is one of my life mottos, it doesn't help me a lot. My room is constantly a mess because I really can't be arsed to clean it but I do enjoy telling my mum it's 'organised mess,' which is partly true because I actually do know where everything is. Ask me to find you my speakers shaped like disco men with giant afros and I can point you to my wardrobe, behind the shoe boxes and under the blanket. Still, it's a mess and 40% of the time I hate it.
My college work tends to get my "I don't care" speech a lot. I get to a certain point and give up because I'm either bored or think I can't do it anymore. My English Lit coursework and Extended Project got the brunt of it this year. I do think I have a fair reason to hate my English coursework though. It's hard to be motivated to do it when one of your teachers told you to your face, in fancier words, you're not much better than a C. And my Extended Project? Well I won't start on that because we may be here for a long time...

So... 1 day over, 29 to go.